Somatic Signs Your Body is Holding Stress
Psychological and emotional stress activates the body’s sympathetic aka “fight or flight” response which triggers a cascade of different physiological responses in the body. This stress doesn’t have to be a literal threat of danger- often in our modern world we can feel very real, constant stress from things like financial worries, loneliness and alienation, identity crisis, and major life upheavals (positive and negative!) like a job transition, relationship ending, new marriage or baby, or a big move. Here are some ways that stress can show itself in the body:
1. Musculoskeletal System
Chronic neck, shoulder, or jaw tension
Tension headaches or migraines
Back pain without a clear structural cause
Teeth grinding or jaw clenching (often during sleep)
2. Nervous System
Tingling or numbness (especially hands, feet, face)
Feeling lightheaded or “shaky”
Restlessness or feeling “on edge”
Pain that seems to “migrate” or feel diffused
Sensitivity to light, sound, and touch
3. Cardiovascular System
Chest tightness (not due to heart disease)
Elevated blood pressure
Cold hands or feet (from blood vessel constriction)
4. Gastrointestinal System
Stomach pain or cramping
Nausea or appetite changes
Worsening of conditions like IBS
5. Respiratory System
Shortness of breath not related to asthma
Shallow or rapid breathing
Frequent sighing or yawning
Sensation of a lump in the throat
Chest tightness related to anxiety
6. Immune and Inflammatory Responses
Frequent colds or infections
Slower healing
Flare-ups of inflammatory conditions
Increased allergies or skin reactions
General sense of physical “run-down”
7. Skin and Hair
Stress hormones directly affect skin and hair growth cycles.
Acne breakouts
Eczema and psoriasis flare ups
Excessive sweating, especially at night
Hair thinning or shedding
Hives or itching without clear cause
8. Sleep and Energy Regulation
Stress disrupts circadian and hormonal rhythms.
Difficulty falling or staying asleep
Non-restorative sleep
Feeling “tired but wired”
9. Hormonal and Reproductive Effects
Stress affects endocrine signaling.
Worsening PMS symptoms and cycle irregularities
Changes in libido
It’s not all in your head.
When the nervous system is dysregulated, stress hormones are released, blood vessels constrict, and the body goes into survival mode. Your brain structure and function shifts, and learns this state of being, and will repeat the same patterns, in order to try to protect you.
The good news? The learned brain-body patterns (neuroplasticity) that cause these symptoms to keep manifesting can be shifted- your nervous system can be taught regulation that allows the body to feel safety, be at ease, and function in a much healthier way. When you can leave the state of survival, your mind, capacity to feel, and the world around you expand. Healing isn’t just about relief; it’s about growth.

